Hi Ciaran,
To answer your first question yes. Some Ical come through other recieve an blank attachment with no invite. So the attachment appears for everyone but one is an ical invite and the other a blank email message.
I attached an email for you to view. This email was sent to me to investigate, everyone in the team that were invited to the training recieve an ical invite except this one person. I have confirmed they are on the same exchange server and their settings are the same as the others who recieved the invite.
As I can only add one attachement to this thread I have added an ical invite (from a test) to the email so you can see the two types of attachements which can appear.
Hope this helps.
Sonia