I'm not sure if I'm asking for help here or just posting some useful findings, but anyway would be interested to hear if anyone has similar problems/results.
In Totara 1.1 we've had a long-standing issue with SCORM grades sometimes not being recorded. Sometimes it works and sometimes not; our testing has been a bit sporadic and, frankly, despondent :-( But recently we found that if two users are doing the same scorm at the same time then only one of them gets recorded. We've tried this on a couple of courses now and got some consistent results (or lack of results).
Usually all our courses have "Student skip content structure page" set to "always" but today we happened upon a course where this was set as "never" and found the problem gone; since replicated in other courses and wider testing scheduled. Feels like a breakthrough of some sort.